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tales of something simple - relationships

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you're not a virgin if you play 'just the tip'

I’m extremely sick of hearing people (celebreties, callers on the radio, people on talk shows, in a crowd, at a party, etc.) claim that they saved their virginity for “the one” or for when they were married when really? They didn’t.

No, you so didn’t. How can you claim to have played every base except slide totally into home with your pants down, and call yourself a virgin? I don’t understand where this idea came from. That you can claim moral highroad, purity, maturity, patience or WHATEVER you want to call it, when really you didn’t. A woman on the radio called in today and said “Well I waited for three years after starting my relationship with my now fiance and I am saving myself for when we get married next month.”  The radio host replies “Man he hold out for you, he must have blue balls!”  She rocks my world and goes, “Well not really we’ve pretty much done everything else.”

And yes, I’m bashing females right now but it’s only females I hear making this grandious statement that really tells me more about their need to make themselves believe that they “saved” themselves, and less about the lie that they actually didn’t. If you are takin’ off your panties, groping, mouthing or getting anywhere near the nether region in a way you wouldn’t want you Mom walking in on–maybe it isn’t all that innocent.

Don’t get me wrong here: I am not taking a stab toward people who remain virgins (did not have oral or vaginal intercourse…or the back alley for that matter), until they get married or settle down with a lifetime partner.  Hell’s yeah for you!  Go sister–have at those blue balls!  What gets me going is the woman who claim that they did something out of the ordinary, against popular peer choice, and make a claim about it, when really they engaged in activities that could very well be classified as being more intimate than the insertion itself.  I don’t respect someone who plays the ‘just the tip’ game and then wants to brag about saving themselves.

Don’t teach younger, impressionable, ignorant and looking for an excuse to get lucky kids that sex just means the definition of the “birds and the bees talk” your parents gave you in 2nd grade.  Call a spade a spade and either keep your pants on or take em’ off and be proud of it.

And yes, I wore a white wedding dress.  And because my grandmother now reads my blog, I won’t tell you whether I deserved to or not.


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